This is where I introduce a new theme, participation; a one word answer to the question, 'how should we conduct our ecumenical conversations?'.
Participation is a major topic, with hundreds of websites and books about it. And yet, in almost any church mention of participation, is likely to be met with incomprehension. There are a few notable exceptions; for instance, some fresh expressions are exploring the use of participation. I suspect this is happening where younger people are encountering participative methods in other walks of life and expect to find it in their religious life too.
Too many religious leaders start with the implicit assumption they have all the answers. Many of them do have answers and some of their answers are very good answers; until they encounter the problem of reception. People do not buy into their ideas, they remain sceptical or ignore the debates. The famous symptom of this is the idea it is somehow wrong to bring politics into church.
Sometimes there may be consultation, where church members are graciously permitted to discuss something that has already been decided before they give it their consent. So, we see the great debates, sometimes in the eyes of the media, where a major council of a church has to choose between a prescribed solution, rejection of the same solution and either way threats of schism.
There are of course honourable exceptions. In the Catholic tradition, there is the practice of discernment. The Quakers' search for the spirit of the meeting, may be a related approach to discernment.
But it is time the leadership of all the traditions took a long hard look at how they make decisions. How many really make the effort to take all relevant information on board? How many trust their people? How many listen to them, involve them and genuinely believe this is something worth doing?
I believe God speaks to us as communities, not individuals. The will of God for us is discerned through our conversations. And that is conversations that are generative. If we want to do this, we need to learn the skills. A new 'Participation' category to this blog will explore these skills.
Last Saturday we ran a day workshop called 'Participation in Church'. About 30 people attended from all over the country and we simply discussed what participation means or might mean for us in our churches. It was a mix of several traditions, including some fresh expressions and other new independent churches.
This file is a brochure we produced in advance of the day, it includes a brief introduction to participative methods.
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